The best wishlist app for a family depends on how your family already gives. Here is the short answer:
- Wishes: best if each person keeps their own list and you want relatives to open it from one link with nothing to install.
- Giftster: best if your whole extended family will join one private group, and you want purchases hidden from the person receiving them.
- GiftList: best free tier, and it also hides purchases from the list owner.
- MyRegistry: best if the family is putting money toward one big gift.
- Elfster: best if what your family actually runs is a Secret Santa draw.
- DrawNames: a free second option for the name draw, with wish lists attached.
- Amazon Wish List: best if nearly all of your family's shopping already happens on Amazon.
All seven are free to start. The rest of this guide is about the four differences that decide it for a family, because a list for a household of five is a different job from a list for one person.
What a family needs that one person does not
- One shared list, or a list each? Some tools are built around a single group everyone joins. Others give each person their own list and connect them loosely. Families with young kids and families of adults usually want opposite things here.
- Can the recipient see that a gift was taken? This is the surprise question, and the tools genuinely disagree. Giftster and GiftList both hide purchases from the person the list belongs to. Wishes shows a booked item as taken to everyone, including you.
- How much do the relatives have to sign up for? The list has to work for a grandparent opening it once, on a phone, in December. Every extra step loses somebody.
- Is anyone keeping a list for a child? A five year old does not have an account or a phone. Only some of these have a way to handle that.
Wishes
Wishes gives each person their own list and connects them with one link. You save gift ideas from any store, add notes like sizes or colors, and send the list to whoever needs it. Anyone with the link can open it in a browser with no account and nothing to install. Reserving a gift is the one step that asks for a free sign-in with Apple or Google.
There is no "family group" in Wishes. Instead there are three ways to connect people to a list, and which one you want depends on the person:
- Follow a relative's list and it sits in your "Shared with me" shelf, with a notification when they add something new to it.
- Invite a collaborator by email so two of you can build and manage the same list, which is how most couples run a shared household list. Collaboration is part of Wishes Plus.
- Make the list secret so only the people you invite can see it and book from it, which is the setting to use for a list you do not want landing in a search result.
You can build a list in the browser at wishes.app/new. The iOS and Android apps add the two things a phone is better at: saving a page to Wishes from your phone's share menu, and a push notification the moment someone books a gift.
What Wishes offers
- Save items from any store or website by pasting a link
- A list per person, shared with one link, with no account needed to open and browse it
- Booking, so once someone claims an item it shows as taken and nobody buys it twice
- Follow a relative's list and get told when they add to it
- Collaborative lists you build with a partner or a family member, on Wishes Plus
- Secret lists, visible only to the people you invite
Considerations
- The free plan covers three wishlists. Past that, Wishes Plus lifts the limit and adds collaboration and every theme. It is bought in the iOS or Android app.
- A booked item reads as taken on your own list too, so you will know that a gift was claimed. No Wishes screen shows you who claimed it. If you want the surprise intact, do not open your own list in December. Giftster and GiftList take the opposite approach and hide it from you entirely.
- There is no Secret Santa name draw. If the family runs a draw, use one of the tools further down and keep the lists here.
- There are no child accounts. You can keep a list for a child by making one and naming it for them, but you own it rather than managing an account for them.
Giftster
Giftster is the tool built specifically for the case this article is about, and it has been at it longer than most. Its own App Store listing describes inviting "your family members to join your own private gift idea-sharing group". It is rated 4.8 stars from about 19,000 ratings on the US App Store and is free.
What Giftster offers
- A private family group that everyone joins, rather than a set of separate lists
- "Add items from any store in the world", so it is a universal wishlist
- "Mark items purchased to avoid duplicate gifts", with purchases kept hidden from the person whose list it is
- Child accounts, for keeping lists for kids and pets
- A name draw you can add to a group with three or more members
Considerations
- The value is in the group, so it only works when the family actually joins. If two of your five relatives never sign up, you get less out of it than a plain shared link would have given you.
- The group model is more setup than a one-link share. That is the trade: more structure, more to explain at the start.
GiftList
GiftList says it "makes it easy to exchange gifts with friends and family for any occasion, including birthdays, Christmas, holidays, weddings, baby registries, and more". It is the most generous free tier here: the site says it is "free forever" with "no limits on lists or items".
What GiftList offers
- Items from any site or retailer, added by pasting a link
- Reserving without an account: the site states that "no account is needed to view a shared list or reserve a gift"
- "Purchased gifts stay hidden from the list owner"
- Following friends and family, plus occasion reminders
- Group gift exchanges
Considerations
- Creating your own list does need a free account, as does joining a group exchange or following someone.
- The social layer, following people and browsing other lists, is a larger part of this product than it is elsewhere. Whether that is a plus depends on how private you want your family's lists to be.
MyRegistry
MyRegistry is the heaviest option here and the right one when the family is pooling money. Its pitch is universal: "you can add gifts from any store in the world, online or brick-and-mortar", and it says gifts "can be products, experiences, even a Cash Gift Fund for big-ticket items".
What MyRegistry offers
- One registry holding gifts from any store, plus synced registries from individual retailers
- Cash funds, which MyRegistry calls "an easy and tasteful way to help you cover larger expenses"
- Lists for birthdays, the holidays, Sweet 16s and Quinceañeras, back-to-school, graduations and housewarmings, alongside wedding and baby registries
- Sharing by custom URL, eCards and printable announcements
Considerations
- Having a registry is free. MyRegistry states there is "no charge to have a registry", but a small transaction fee applies to a Cash Gift Fund.
- It is built on the registry model, which is thorough and heavier than a family needs for a normal birthday.
Elfster
Elfster calls itself "the premier Secret Santa app" and says organizing an exchange with it is "effortless, fast, and completely free". If your family's December is a name draw rather than everyone buying for everyone, start here. It is rated 4.9 stars from about 331,000 ratings on the US App Store.
What Elfster offers
- A Secret Santa generator with exclusions, so couples do not draw each other and kids are not paired with adults
- Groups "of any size (from 3 to 300+ people)"
- Shareable wishlists attached to each participant
- "100% free", with "no hidden fees, subscriptions, or premium upgrades"
Considerations
- It is organized around an event, not around a list you keep all year. Once the exchange is over, so is most of the reason to open it.
- If nobody in the family wants a draw, almost none of what it does well applies to you.
DrawNames
DrawNames is the second free name-draw option, and it is worth knowing about because it also handles the case where a family wants the lists without the draw. It describes itself as "a free and easy way to bring people together", and its groups can be set up "just to share wish lists".
What DrawNames offers
- A live name draw, where everyone sees who they drew at the same time
- Exclusion rules covering "who shouldn't draw whom"
- Wish lists attached to a group
- Free
Considerations
- It is a lighter product than Elfster, with less around the draw itself.
- Like Elfster, it is organized around one celebration and its date, so it is not the place a family keeps lists year-round.
Amazon Wish List
Amazon's list is built into an account most families already have, which is a real advantage if that is where the shopping happens anyway.
What Amazon Wish List offers
- Adding items in one click while browsing Amazon
- Sharing by link
- Everything alongside your orders and returns
Considerations
- It works from Amazon's own catalog. The browser button that used to push products from other sites into an Amazon list is gone: Amazon's own extension listing says "we have made the decision to discontinue Amazon Assistant on March 28, 2023" (Amazon Assistant for Firefox, published by Amazon.com).
- There is no family layer. You can share a list, but nothing here is designed around a group of people who all give to each other.
Which one fits your family
- Everyone keeps their own list and you want relatives to open it in one tap. Wishes.
- The whole extended family will sign up for one private group. Giftster.
- You want the most generous free tier, with no limits. GiftList.
- The family is putting money toward one large gift. MyRegistry.
- December is a Secret Santa draw. Elfster, or DrawNames.
- You are keeping lists for young children. Giftster, for its child accounts.
- Almost everything is bought on Amazon anyway. Amazon's own list.
How a family shares lists without duplicate gifts

The mechanic is the same wherever you do it, and it is worth setting up once rather than renegotiating every year:
- One list per person, not one list for the family. A shared list is for a shared thing, like a household appliance or a family trip. Gifts are personal, so they belong on the recipient's own list.
- Send the links in the group chat the family already uses. The chat everyone is in beats a new app everyone has to join. This is the step where most family lists die.
- Agree what happens when someone claims a gift. On Wishes, a claimed item shows as taken to everyone. On Giftster and GiftList it is hidden from the recipient. Pick the one your family wants before the first gift is claimed, not after.
- Start earlier than feels necessary. Lists are most useful when the person adding to them is not in a hurry, and the relatives buying from them are not either.
Christmas is when this pays for itself, because it is the one month where the number of people buying for each other jumps and a duplicate costs real money. There is a Christmas wishlist page if that is what brought you here, a longer guide on how to make a Christmas list without duplicates, and a general roundup covering the wishlist apps worth looking at if your question is not specifically about family.
None of this needs the whole family to agree on one app. It needs each person's list to be somewhere the others can open, and one shared rule about what happens when a gift is claimed.
Frequently asked questions
What is the best wishlist app for a family?
There is no single answer, because families split on one question: whether the recipient should see that a gift was taken. If you want it hidden from them, Giftster and GiftList both do that, and Giftster is built around a private family group with child accounts. If you would rather each person kept their own list and shared it with one link that relatives can open without signing up, Wishes is the faster route.
How do we share one wishlist with the whole family?
Send them the link. With Wishes, anyone with the link opens the list in a browser with no account and nothing to install, and reserving a gift is the one step that asks for a free sign-in with Apple or Google. A relative who wants to keep an eye on the list can also follow it, which puts it in their "Shared with me" shelf and tells them when a new item is added.
Can a wishlist stop relatives from buying the same gift twice?
Yes, and for a family it is the main reason to use one at all. Wishes, GiftList and Giftster all let someone mark an item as taken so the next person sees it is covered. Giftster's own listing puts it plainly: "mark items purchased to avoid duplicate gifts". What differs is who else can see that, which is the next question.
Which family wishlist apps hide purchases from the person receiving them?
Giftster and GiftList both do. GiftList states that "purchased gifts stay hidden from the list owner", and Giftster's App Store listing pairs "mark items purchased to avoid duplicate gifts" with keeping those purchases hidden from the person whose list it is. On Wishes a booked item reads as taken to everyone, you included, so the list stays accurate but you will know a gift was claimed. No Wishes screen shows you who claimed it. If you want the surprise, the honest advice is not to open your own list in December.
Do grandparents need an account to use our list?
Not to look at it. On Wishes the link opens in any browser with no account and no app, which is the part that matters for a relative doing this once a year. Reserving a gift does ask them to sign in with Apple or Google first, which takes a moment but still needs nothing installed. GiftList goes further and says "no account is needed to view a shared list or reserve a gift". Check this on whichever tool you pick, because a list your family cannot open is the most common reason a list goes unused.
Can we run a Secret Santa and keep the wish lists in the same place?
Yes, with Elfster or DrawNames, both of which attach wish lists to the draw, and with Giftster, which can add a draw to a group of three or more members. Wishes has no name draw, so if your family runs one, use one of those for the draw itself. There is a separate guide on what to put on a Secret Santa list.
Is a family wishlist app free?
All seven here are free to start. GiftList says it is "free forever" with "no limits on lists or items", Elfster says it is "100% free" with "no hidden fees, subscriptions, or premium upgrades", and DrawNames calls itself "a free and easy way to bring people together". Wishes is free for your first three wishlists, and Wishes Plus lifts that limit and adds collaboration and every theme. MyRegistry says there is "no charge to have a registry" but applies a small transaction fee to a Cash Gift Fund.



